Mom Makes Kids Do Their Own Grocery Shopping And Cooking

What do you think? Good idea? Bad idea?

Why do THE FOOD EXPERIMENT?

Food was becoming a big source of stress between the kids and I. The constant battles over frequency of snacks and the complaining over meal options were driving me batty. There aren’t enough hours in the day to be able to accomplish everything I wish we could so even though I love to cook and bake with my kids and preserve things from our garden, the reality is that day in and day out there are other things that take up our time too. While my kids would LOVE a maid and a housekeeper, they aren’t going to find either in this house.

Can you relate?

On a typical stay-at-home day this is how the food battle goes:

* Kids wake and immediately wander into the kitchen looking for food. (I get it -they’ve slept 10 hours and are truly hungry!)

* I give them 1-3 options depending on how long it’s been since I shopped last.

* They complain about every choice.

* I  get annoyed and tell them their options just became ‘take it or leave it’.

Not exactly the most positive way to start the day, right?

It didn’t get any better as the day goes on….

By 9am my youngest is asking for “something to eat.”

The older two hear the sound of the pantry or refrigerator door and come looking for food as well.

I tell them they ate an hour ago and they have to wait. More grumbling and whining.

I tell them that if they are truly hungry they are welcome to eat baby carrots or a banana. All of a sudden they aren’t that hungry.

An hour later this happens again.

By 11:00 or 12:00 I’m looking for something to put together for lunch -none of which anyone is excited about or if I’m lucky 1 out of 3 wants what I’ve scrounged up in the pantry.

They eat, they leave the dishes behind, they take turns returning to the kitchen looking for a snack. By this point someone has asked me for something to eat every hour since I came back from working in the gardens.

By the time 2pm rolls around I’ve completely given up and I hand them a box of Cheez-Its, grateful for the reprieve. It is short lived because of the crumbs I have to vacuum up. Note to self: Stop letting them eat on the carpet!

The box of empty carbs lasts one sitting and even though I just spent $140 on groceries two days ago we are out of snacks and don’t get me started on meals since I wasn’t good about getting ingredients for actual dinners. (Hello! Meat is expensive and 2/3’s of my kids won’t touch beans. Who am I kidding – I hate them too!  So….I end up buying some fruit, snacks for on the go, and some frozen bags of veggies with the hope that there will still be some leftover meat in the freezer I can turn into a dinner to feed my husband after his long day at work.)

The evenings aren’t much better since we eat dinner early. Plenty of hours left in the day for mindless snacking.

Until…..